Our Mission
Redefining Marriage
It’s Time to Fight for Love!
The mission of You Before Me is to strengthen marital bonds, save marriages on the brink of divorce, and build healthy homes. Our strategic approach towards marriage is crafted to help couples plan for a successful marriage.
The You Before Me Philosophy
Most couples enter into marriage with unrealistic expectations. Society conditions us to believe that relationships are designed to be self-serving. We wed with the intention of finding our “Happily Ever After.” Before you know it, searching for the ways your spouse can benefit you becomes the objective.
But that approach is backwards. At You Before Me, we coach couples out of society’s perspective on relationships and into a healthy marriage mindset.
Picture a home where couples rush to out-serve each other.Imagine a world filled with satisfied couples eager to pour their love, gratitude, and service into everyone they touch. That’s the impact of creating a You Before Me type of relationship.
Loving Your Spouse in Spite of is the Key
It’s easy to feel love and appreciation for someone who pleases you mentally, emotionally, or physically. But what happens when your love bank is empty? Can you still love your partner through the hurt, pain, infidelity and lack of trust?
You Before Me is here to help couples work through the sensitive and complex issues. Opening your heart, pre-deciding, and consciously choosing your spouse again and again are a few of our principles that generate real results.
Pour into your spouse and watch your marriage garden grow.Love her into the woman you desire. Stay by his side and help him grow into a strong and trustworthy man. Show your spouse grace and favor, and watch what happens within you.
Helping Couples Develop a Marriage Blueprint for Success
We’re righting society’s relationship wrongs.Preparation is the main missing ingredient when it comes to building a successful marriage.
Think about it. You’ve been taught to prepare for college, driving, and work, but nothing requires you to prepare for marriage. That’s a recipe for failure.
Sharing your life with another person can be the most difficult and rewarding decision you make. Whether you’re beginning your marital journey, experiencing marital challenges, or searching for ways to keep the fire burning, we want to help you succeed. That’s why we’ve developed a marriage blueprint to help couples win at marriage.
The You Before Me 3-step formula is based on the spiritual and practical foundation that has structured and strengthened our relationship.
- Prepare the environment
- Protect your relationship
- Preserve a sustainable marriage
Our marriage strategies are designed to walk individuals and couples through each phase so that they can build a loving and lasting bond.
We Focus on the Following Key Areas:
- Internal healing
- Developing realistic expectations
- Establishing effective communication
- Connecting emotionally, spiritually, and physically
- Mastering the art of forgiveness
- Overcoming major challenges
- Discovering new and exciting ways to keep the fire burning
Interested? Explore our Marriage Coaching offerings below.
Kick Divorce in the Face
One thing is for certain: No one marries with the intent to divorce, but the messiness of life tends to get in the way.
Arguments ensue, attraction dies, children complicate, cheating occurs... Before you know it, divorce is on the table. Don’t hit the panic button!
It’s possible to overcome your marital challenges. Developing and maintaining a healthy marriage requires consistent effort, intentional action, endless prayers, and open communication. That’s why we’ve created what we call “The You Before Me Marriage Network.”
Our unique methodology will teach you how to connect with yourself and your spouse. Through our books, programs, workshops, and ministry, we’re here to help couples strategize their way to a thriving marriage.
Let’s Connect
Contrary to popular belief, a happy, healthy and fulfilling marriage is achievable. Sometimes it just requires a different perspective.
If you’re searching for ways to save or grow your marriage, connect with us today. We look forward to helping you develop a marriage strategy.